DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND ABUSE
Domestic Violence and Abuse
Domestic Violence and Abuse: You Are Not Alone
As a domestic abuse survivor, I understand the pain, fear, and confusion you may feel. Abuse has a way of breaking down your spirit, but I want you to know there is hope. You are not alone, and you deserve to live a life free from harm. I am here to help you navigate this difficult time and support you on your journey to safety, healing, and empowerment.
Abuse is never your fault, and it is never acceptable. Whether you are experiencing abuse yourself or are concerned for someone you know, there are steps you can take to protect yourself and find the support you need.
Recognising the Signs of Domestic Abuse
Abuse comes in many forms, and it is not always easy to recognise, especially when it happens over time. It’s important to trust yourself and your feelings. If something feels wrong, it likely is. Some common forms of abuse include:
- Physical Abuse: Hitting, slapping, or other forms of physical harm intended to cause injury or pain.
- Emotional Abuse: Insults, threats, humiliation, or manipulation that undermine your self-worth and cause lasting emotional harm.
- Financial Abuse: Controlling your access to money, preventing you from gaining financial independence, or using finances as a tool for power and control.
- Sexual Abuse: Forcing you into sexual activities without your consent, which is a violation of your autonomy and safety.
- Coercive Control: A pattern of behavior designed to manipulate, dominate, and isolate you from others, restricting your freedom and independence.
If any of these resonate with you, please trust your instincts. Abuse thrives in silence, but you have the right to speak up and seek help. There are safe ways to escape, and there is a life waiting for you beyond the pain. Reaching out for support is the first step toward healing, and there are people who care and resources available to help you rebuild your life.
You are not to blame for the abuse you’ve experienced, and you are stronger than you realize.
Steps to Get Help
Domestic Abuse Resources (UK)
- National Domestic Violence Helpline
Website: www.nationaldomesticviolencehelpline.org.uk
Phone: 0808 2000 247
Details: Provides confidential support for those experiencing domestic abuse, including advice and refuge services. - Women’s Aid
Website: www.womensaid.org.uk
Phone: 0808 2000 247
Details: Offers support and resources for women experiencing domestic abuse. Includes an online chat service. - Refuge
Website: www.refuge.org.uk
Phone: 0808 2000 247
Details: Provides support, information, and accommodation for women and children escaping domestic violence. - NSPCC (National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children)
Website: www.nspcc.org.uk
Phone: 0808 800 5000
Details: Offers support and resources for children and young people who are experiencing abuse or need help. - Men’s Advice Line
Website: www.mensadviceline.org.uk
Phone: 0808 801 0327
Details: Provides support for men experiencing domestic abuse.
General Support Resources (UK)
- Samaritans
Website: www.samaritans.org
Phone: 116 123
Details: Offers confidential support for anyone in emotional distress or crisis. - Citizens Advice
Website: www.citizensadvice.org.uk
Phone: 0800 144 8848
Details: Provides free, confidential advice on a range of issues, including domestic abuse and health concerns.
Domestic Abuse Resources(USA)
- National Domestic Violence Hotline
Website: www.thehotline.org
Phone: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
Text: Text “START” to 88788
Details: Provides confidential support, resources, and information for those experiencing domestic abuse. - RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network)
Website: www.rainn.org
Phone: 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)
Details: Offers support for survivors of sexual violence, including a confidential online chat service. - National Coalition Against Domestic Violence
Website: www.ncadv.org
Phone: 1-800-799-7233
Details: Provides advocacy, resources, and information on preventing and addressing domestic violence. - DomesticShelters.org
Website: www.domesticshelters.org
Phone: 1-800-799-7233
Details: Offers a searchable database of domestic violence shelters and services across the U.S.
General Support Resources (USA)
- Mental Health America
Website: www.mhanational.org
Phone: 1-800-969-6642
Details: Provides mental health resources and support for various issues related to abuse and trauma.
211 (United Way)
Website: www.211.org
Phone: 211
Details: Connects individuals with local health, housing, and emergency services resources
Steps to Get Help
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Domestic Abuse Resources
National Domestic
Violence Helpline
0808 2000 247
Women’s Aid
0808 2000 247
Refuge
0808 2000 247
NSPCC
0808 800 5000
Men’s Advice Line
0808 801 0327
Provides support for men experiencing domestic abuse.
General Support Resources
Samaritans
116 123
Offers confidential support for anyone in emotional distress or crisis.
Citizens Advice
0800 144 8848
Domestic Abuse Resources
National Domestic
Violence Helpline
1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
RAINN
1-800-656-HOPE (4673)
National Coalition Against Violence
1-800-799-7233
DomesticShelters.org
1-800-799-7233
General Support Resources
Mental Health America
1-800-969-6642
211 (United Way)
Domestic Abuse Resources
Gender-Based Violence Command Centre
0800 150 150
GBV National Command Centre
Dial: *120*7867#
National Counselling Line
0861 322 322
Childline South Africa
LifeLine South Arica
0861 322 322
General Support Resources
South African Police Services
Domestic Abuse Resources
1800RESPECT
1800 737 732
Lifeline Australia
13 11 14
Full Stop Australia
1800 385 578
Specialist counselling and support for survivors of sexual, domestic, and family violence.
MensLine Australia
1300 789 978
Domestic Abuse Resources
Centro de Apoyo a Víctimas de Violación
+1 787 765 2285
Office of the Women’s Advocate
+1 787 722 2977
Tu Paz Cuenta – Gender Violence
+1 787 697 1120
Support for women, elderly individuals, and families affected by Gender-Based Violence.
Proyecto Matria
+1 787 489 0022
Support, advocacy, and resources for survivors of domestic and gender-based violence, including LGBTQI+ individuals.
Recognising the Signs of Domestic Abuse
I want to remind you that life after abuse is possible. As a survivor myself, I understand how daunting it can be to take the first step. But with the right support, you can regain your strength, find your voice, and reclaim your life.
You are stronger than you know, and help is always available. Together, we can find a way forward.
If you’d like to connect with me directly for support or guidance, please don’t hesitate to reach out. You are not alone on this journey.
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
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Domestic Violence and Abuse: You Are Not Alone
If you or anyone else is in a domestic violence situation they should do everything possible to get out safely. To speak to someone if you are worried about someone you know may be experiencing abuse and do not want anyone to know click on this link
You can also find further information and support here
NATIONAL DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOTLINE
Hotline: 1 (800) 799 – 7233
Available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week via phone and online chat.
The National Domestic Violence Hotline (The Hotline) is available for anyone experiencing domestic violence, seeking resources or information, or questioning unhealthy aspects of their relationship.
VRC - Victim Resource Centre
Domestic violence is used to gain power and control in a relationship. Usually, it is perpetrated by a partner or family member and can impact an entire community.
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